What's going on with Meg and Dia?
I've been reading about a lot of concern on twitter and Facebook since we decided to close down the Meg and Dia merch store a few days ago. So, I'm going to address your concerns here in this blog post.
Firstly, we decided to close the merch store down because we all live in different cities and, since all of the merch is at Nick's house, he's been handling all of the tasks, such as shipping and packaging the items, all on his own. It just didn't seem fair to have him keep all of that responsibility on his shoulders when none of the rest of us could help out.
Then because the store is closing, "Meg and Dia"questions started popping up.
I know that a lot of you are thinking, "Well, sheesh, I wish all the members of Meg and Dia can keep rocking in their wheel chairs when they are in their seventies and beyond!" And, you know, in some ways that is a very sweet idea. And maybe we will all be rocking in our wheel chairs in our seventies. I'd be pretty stoked about that! Ha ha. We just won't be doing it in the same format that was once called, "Meg and Dia".
I think "Meg and Dia" was our battleground where we learned so many valuable lessons about life and music that we are now ready to use in other musical endeavors. And I'm really, REALLY sorry, that this makes so many of you sad. In a way, that makes me kind of happy (I hope you guys take this the right way) because that means that you all cared so much. It means that we made some kind of difference in your lives. For us, that's what making music is all about.
So, life happens, and we all get these incredible opportunities sometimes that we have to take advantage of, so we can learn and become better people and better musicians. Dia had a chance to perform with her role model in an arena tour and she's now traveling to other countries to sing her heart out and inspire people who don't even speak the same language as her! How cool is that?
I'm playing with some of the most talented musicians I've ever met here in this calm city. I never had the chance to really focus on my craft. When you're constantly touring the focus is more on performing. I really believe now is my time to really get to know my instrument. I feel like instead of dating the guitar and taking it slow we just kind of dove into the whole "playing music" thing and now that things are more calm, I'd like to take her out on a few dates, you know?
I hear Jonathan's becoming quiet the chef in Los Angeles, and Carlo is Dia's Sancho Paza on her musical quest. Nick's still playing music with me, although now I think I should say I'm playing music with him, because he's been teaching me so much.
So you see, nothing is stopping. Things are just changing. Meg and Dia was an incredible, exciting, part of our pasts that will always be remembered and we will all take the lessons from those years and apply them to the present.
Living life in the moment is so important, don't you think? So, let's do that, you and I, and keep the past were it was, without forgetting, and look forward to the future, without remembering.
Honestly,
Meg
Comments
I only recently became a fan and got caught up on all the beautiful music that you and Dia made over the years. This news saddens me just the same, but here’s hoping that you find what you’re looking for. Best of luck with your new musical endeavours.
October 29 2012 at 03:10 PM
Are the meg and dia youtube, facebook, and twitter going to stay intact or will they be deleted :(
October 29 2012 at 04:10 PM
Meg & Dia is (was?) my favorite band, and your music has inspired me so much. I’ve loved listening to all of your wonderful work these past years, and I look forward to seeing what you guys do in the future! <3
October 29 2012 at 04:10 PM
It took me too long to find your music and now that I have I feel let down (but I do understand). I just don’t know where to look for new stuff by both of you. I get the idea in my mind that you’re writing, but Dia may not be??? If she is, I haven’t heard anything new, and wouldn’t know wher to look. Wishing all of you the best, but I’m confused.
October 29 2012 at 04:10 PM
Meg,
Thanks that was quite eloquent i know you and i had talked about this after the live stuff with Vil .But the store closing was the nail in the coffen (Halloween reference) so to speak i guess i may have unintentionally contributed to the drama with my post on the store closing notice . I became meloncholy reading all the comments so far..Not the end..Only the begining Framptons4Life
October 29 2012 at 04:10 PM
Good music. BUT JUST MUSIC (unless it was you means of income)! Shouldn’t the listener be less concerned that the person who’s livelihood it was? Enjoy what others do, but live for yourselves.
October 29 2012 at 05:10 PM
I remember seeing you guys on tour months before the voice started. Im sad to see this but I know many would agree that Meg and Dia will never really be gone because you are sisters. And because you all are friends and still playing together. just not all of you playing in the same band….maybe one day M&D can get together and jam to remember the old times..
Thanks for the memories. looking forward to new ones made by Meg Frampton and Dia Frampton individually
October 29 2012 at 06:10 PM
I’m so full of conflicted emotions. I’m happy for each of you, moving on to bigger and better things that you find more fulfilling. But on the other hand, your music has had such a profound and deep influence on me as a person and it’s hard to think of it ending.
October 29 2012 at 07:10 PM
“keep the past were it was, without forgetting, and look forward to the future, without remembering.” – love that meg.
I managed to catch Dia in Bangkok last weekend — lets say she definitely got the ‘Bieber-mania’ treatment lol — and while it was great to see her and seeing her do well abroad, I am just as excited to hear your songs. Its great that you’re still here, engaging with your fans, still creating music. You can bet there’d still be people like me around not wanting to leave :)
October 29 2012 at 07:10 PM
…shit, this sucks. Cocoon will always be one of my favorite albums. I sincerely hope y’all find happiness and success in whatever else you decide to pursue! It was fun while it lasted. Sounds cheesy, but thanks for making me a better person.
October 29 2012 at 08:10 PM
While I am sad that I will not get to see the great Meg & Dia band in concert again, I am so happy that when I was able to see you ( Warped Tour & in the Twin Cities). I still love your music, and will continue to support you all in whatever you decide to do! Your music keeps going, even if its not in the way most thought it would. :) Thank you for taking the time to tell us what you thought and thanks for the many memories Meg & Dia’s music has brought to us all.
October 29 2012 at 10:10 PM
No matter where the road takes each of you, no matter what changes ensue, Meg & Dia will always be in our hearts. OHIG Meg & Dia, Something Real Meg & Dia, most-recent-tour-cancelled Meg & Dia, and everything in between! As corny as that sounds, you guys greatly helped to get me through several years of life and for that and all of the beautiful things that happened throughout your run together, I will always be grateful. I’m so happy to see you all moving in positive directions. I know we surely have much more to see from all of you, whether under the “Meg & Dia” title or not. I am thankful for those past years, just as I’m sure you all are as well. Looking back, I feel nothing but heartwarming memories and irreplaceable connections with music and five wonderful, inspirational music-lovers. You’ve all always been a sort of light that shines brightly on even the darkest of days, always making things better for us dedicated fans, and making us feel truly appreciated with all of your kindness… and that’s something I’ll never forget. It’s been an incredible journey (even from where I stand, as simply an adoring fan), and I know you will all continue being awesome no matter what you do! I hope you don’t mind, but I think us “Meg & Dia” fans still hope to follow you all through life’s adventures if you will continue to let us! All the best to everyone who has been a part of the “Meg & Dia” team… boardies, artists, managers, band mates, merch girls, supporters… everyone. Thank you all, greatly ~
October 30 2012 at 05:10 AM
Hi meg, just wanna say thanks to you guys for the awesome music all these times. good luck and will always support you guys :)
October 30 2012 at 12:10 PM
Meg, I think you should consider a reunion tour down the line. Just saying… :)
October 30 2012 at 09:10 PM
My heart is broken right now, I never got the chance to see you because I live in Mexico, I was hoping you would come someday, sadly that will never happen…. But well… Every album, every song has a beautiful story behind, I want to say that I will listen to your music for the rest of my life, you guys are awesome! I will sray tuned to all the thing you wanna do, the khaki scout and her solo project, You know what? I always listen to Punk and hard rock bands but youu were the exception, I was really into your music, your music soothes me, your music takes me to places i’ve never been! I bought all your albums in storenvy because it was the only way I could get it! I’m not gonna lie, I’m hoping you will reunite or maybe someday or maybe the awesome Dia would come to Mexico and you will come with her and play some old stuffs! :3 (please please please!) I hope you read this Meg! Good luck to all of you guys! Keep being awesome! Greetings from Mexico!!
October 31 2012 at 12:10 AM
Hey Meg,
Hoping to see you guys do a reunion show 10 years from now. KEEP ME POSTED! I’ll be there.
Love you guys.
October 31 2012 at 05:10 AM
The band’s music touched my heart from the very beginning and it has always made me feel alive. I just want to say thank you and I hope you’re all doing well.
oxoxoxoxo
October 31 2012 at 05:10 AM
I am so shocked right now, and all I can say is, thank you for your music. Your music introduced me to a whole new level of music, and I really, really appreciate that. I will continue to love Meg & Dia as long as I live and you will always be a part of my top favorite bands list. God bless, and may you all find Him. :) Love from the Philippines!
November 01 2012 at 02:11 AM
All I ever wanted was to experience “Halloween” live. Still hoping that day will come!
November 01 2012 at 01:11 PM
The Meg and Dia band has made a huge impact on my life (a positive one, of course!)
You guy’s music has touched my heart and soul, and has given me much to look
up at. It breaks my heart that it’s no longer a band, however i happy to know that each of you has taken your success above anfdbeyond.
November 01 2012 at 03:11 PM
All the Meg & Dia albums are still some of my constantly played cds. EVER. While I’m sad that Meg & Dia are no more, I have been equally excited about all the new things, like Dia’s ‘Red,’ and all the Khaki Scouts demos (and of course, the bots!). It’s also awesome to hear that Jonathan is cooking! Do you know what kind of cuisine?! I wish you guys the best in everything you do. You guys are truly an inspiration. :)
November 01 2012 at 03:11 PM
I am incredibly saddened to see this post, but I know it was bound to happen. I have been listening since the days of “Our Home is Gone” and purevolume. I’ve followed through till the very end, to which I am so happy to have known your music in my life. M&D’s music has spoke volumes to me, has got me through hard times, and has made me grow as a person. I literally grew up to your music. I started listening at 13 and now I am 21. I am incredibly thankful to have seen you in concert (by concert I mean the Burberry in Philly) before this post, and I am happy that you are happy. Keep being you.
“I’ve got to keep looking and someday I’ll be, in the place where I feel most like me "
November 04 2012 at 09:11 AM
Hello! I don’t usually post or comment on things on the internet, but I just have to let you guys know how amazing you all are. You’re lyrical and instrumental geniuses! Listening to your music helped me learn how to harmonize and Setting Up Sunday was one of the first songs I learned how to play on the guitar. In fact, most of the songs I know how to play on the guitar are by Meg & Dia. These examples are only an understatement of how much you’ve all influenced my life. Your music was literally my medicine to everything. I’m young but I’ve been listening to your music for years. I feel like I grew up with you guys as I listened to your music matured. I only regret not being able to go to your concert. Meg & Dia was honestly the only artist I wanted to see live so desperately. But even though you disbanded I still feel like I’m growing up with you as we’re both finding our ways in this world. I hope that each and every one of you gets to enjoy what you love doing the most, even if it does mean being separated. But if you happen to do a concert as Meg & Dia again, or even solo concerts in the east coast, I will buy that ticket in a heartbeat and ship myself to wherever it’s at. :-)
Sincerely,
Your Faithful Fan
November 05 2012 at 07:11 PM
I’m glad I was able to see Meg and Dia twice and hopefully one day I can travel to the States to see either one of you perform. Good luck with all your endeavours and I’ll look forward to all the music that both of you create.
- Forever a fan
December 21 2012 at 12:12 AM
Hi Meg,
I usually read your (wonderfully worded btw) blog entries but have never previously commented:
Just wanted to say that although I’m sad to hear that the Meg & Dia chapter in your lives is now over, I’m excited to see what new chapters will be coming next!
I also wish all of you a happy new year, and all the best for the future and personally can’t wait to hear (and maybe even see, if you guys get over to the UK) where your new directions take you!
keep making music, and keep smiling – lets hope 2013 may be your best year yet! :)
regards
Gary
December 31 2012 at 07:12 AM